This year I turn 32. Quite an awfully alot of numbers isn’t it. I had about 100 candles on my cake, and family and friends who spent it with me. They asked me how many candles I wanted? I said all. My sister said, the cake is on fire. I had blueberry lemon yogurt … More Year 3Two – The Cake is on Fire
You know, I am not really a fan of kids, I realized.. even though when I was younger, I did imagine that I would have a son in married life. For obvious reasons, we have not and did not want to have kids yet. Have you heard them screaming and throwing tantrums? the eye bags … More Oh cuteness overloads
I was quite ill for past 4-5 months since June/July, it was a flu that didn’t go away and just as I was about to get better, it came back again. Recently, I got better after my trip and started to meet people again, catch up with old acquaintances, meet new friends etc. Often the … More Take it with a pinch of salt
A month ago, I came back to Singapore after a great trip in the UK. I recalled the feeling that came to me when I stepped into the study room where I worked in. As I entered the room and approach my computer, a sinking feeling in my entire body I have not felt before … More Letting go isn’t giving up
I had this feeling and knew I needed to take a few days away from home to have me time – actually away from my husband and spent time elsewhere. But it didn’t happen because of me feeling unwell from flu and added on the impending typhoon. Yes i was going to take a last … More New to marriage even after 3 years
I met a friend last week, because his sister is interested to do something related to online shopping and asked if i could chat with her abit. I said okay – although honestly, I really did not know how or what I can help or advice her with. I am not like.. very successful (in … More The Millennial generation in work
For a few days now, i been wondering how to find a way to break out of what i have been in, what i look at, what i been reading, what i have been doing. how do i do that?
Many people go around saying take risks, take risks. I was only able to understand what it really means when people say ” take risks” because it just sounds very daunting. Until Shu Ling shared with me this talk by Brene Brown. To take risks, first we need to allow ourselves to be vulnerable. … More Take Risks, Be Vulnerable
A lot of people ask us if we are planning to have a kid, and if we want we should have children soon/early. I think there’s less people asking us now, and i always don’t know what to answer people on “why”. It is like an obligation to “explain” to people why you don’t want … More Random thoughts on kids and such
Yesterday, we went to alvin’s friend’s place to have dinner with couple of his other friends. There was one of them i never met before but after, i found out that he’s a writer. He reminded me of mel, they both decided that they just want to purely pursue their love of something- mel, art. … More Like A lot & Just Like
